Monday, October 26, 2015

IMHO

I'm not sure how friendship works nowadays. Like, you guys just happen to often meet in events but barely even talk to each other, and then you say, "let's selfie" and pose very intimately, and boom, suddenly you're friends. And even when you do talk, the topic just revolves around the weather and your dress.

I personally think relationships go beyond that. Friendship is a form of relationship, so I think it should be taken seriously. Friendship is actually caring about the other person's life; what are you up to these days, how are you feeling lately, how's family, what are your future plans, how do you feel about things, genuinely. You know, like an actual talk that makes you feel good afterwards.

I do think people should take more effort in building quality talks and making real relationships instead of simply posting things on social media just to look like you're that person who has friends everywhere.


16 comments:

winda ayu lestari said...

Couldn't agree more!! Semua orang nampak berlomba lomba untuk berfoto ria dengan muka bahagia dan sesempurna mungkin agar nampak indah ketika diposting diberbagai media sosial..

Anonymous said...

Nicely said. Friendship is more than just selfies then put it in online :)

Vani Sagita said...

I do think of the same thing, Kak Di. The problem is, I sometime think if that person would like to have a conversation with me?

Like when I met you at the clozette event & Blogger Babes, I want to ask you sooo many questions since I always feel like you have such a deep thought on business, marketing, and art, which is the most interesting subjects for me. But I'm kind of afraid to ask you, like would you mind? But maybe I'm just too awkward and nervous as a person. :p

Anonymous said...

definitely, that person is sok asik and probably a social climber. very desperate. and you have the rights to say nah! I'm not your gal.

Anonymous said...

I agree with you. Friendship is way more than just the usual "let's take a selfie". Friendship is a constant effort. :)

burn out burn said...

I agree ka D, that's why I prefer to go with small crowd which fill with close friends on no judgement days than hang with big crowd with a littlle to know.

Catra Samoedro said...

Totally agree with you Di....
Yang lebih mengerikan lagi, after post photos on their socmed, then they're gossiping and talking behind their back. Sereemmmmmm

War dah said...

Your thoughts always knock my heart and mind, Kak Di. Especially about friendship and relationship nowadays.

Stephanie Sjan Semen said...

Totally agree with your last words kak. I prefer to have one but real rather than many friends but yeah... such a fake friends maybe.

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dini bhubu-nya Rama said...

"Friendship is a form of relationship" agree !!,, also.. friendship is "amanah" to

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Monika Meitasari said...

totally agree!!!!

Monika Meitasari said...

totally agree!!!!

Lauretha Sudjono said...

i would be totally agree with this statement of yours. I'd be so selectively choosing a person to be in real friendship these days.
thanks for sharing, Diana.

sangkanovsky Sangka said...

yes I agree we must provide the best ..... as it should be a good person even though we do not think is good in our hearts certainly good friend ...... life ... woww

nona alis said...

aah remind me on someone...

Nohan Arum said...

Ah totally agree kak di

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