Sunday, May 20, 2012

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"First of all, pls do notice that this is not a hate message and I'm not a hater. However I find it kind of ridiculous that you love compliments so much (about how your fans tweeted to you, saying "kak Diana is so pretty" etc etc) and you're going on like spreading those compliments so the world will know about your admired beauty. (so far, it's all that i see) I know it's really good of you for being confident but I just want you to also think about people who criticized you. There must be some strong reasons. My honest opinion is, yes you're pretty but sometimes you make so weird faces that I loathe it and wanna puke. No offense. Your statement towards the person who said "Love the clothes, not the face" is so ...what's it, childish. I really dont like your statement about your unsureness that the person also has a pretty face. It sounds like you really cant accept the fact that some people just dont like your appearance."


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Dear Cesca,

Thank you very much for your comment / feedback. Please be assured that I am nowhere near crazy about compliments, and I can assure you that my real life friends would approve that. I understand that many people might not like me or even hate me (including you), and I am totally fine with that. I think, if you have gone through my blogposts, I have for quite a few times wrote about how in life, not everyone will like, love or accept us for who we are, and I fully am aware that there are people out there who perceive me in that manner. So yes, thank you for not liking me and thinking that I make weird faces. To be fair and honest, I am weird (and I like to make weird faces too). I have accepted that since I was a kid...:)

If you were referring to my feedback towards the "Love the clothes, not the face" comment sometime back then, and if you really comprehended my blogpost well, it was not about me defending myself nor denying the fact that my face is not pleasant for everyone. I was just pointing out, that my face, your face, and everyone's face, is gifted by God. Our face along with our other physical features are how we were simply born with. So yes, I do find it extremely rude if someone makes a joke of someone's face - anyone's face, not just mine. If you disagree with this and think that it's okay to make bad comments about people's faces, then how come you yourself seemed extremely offended by stating that "I really dont like your statement about your unsureness that the person also has a pretty face". I didn't even use the word "loathe" and "puke" just like you did and you're already agitated? :)

So Cesca, let me be very clear, that I AM OKAY and I FULLY ACCEPT the fact that some people don't like my face or appearance. I have been totally cool about this since years ago. But I will never tolerate any form of verbal harassment done to me or anyone out there..so please try to understand the context first before judging...:)

xoxo,
Diana

93 comments:

adeliav said...

semangat kak diana :)
orang sirik memang suka begitu.

hanny arianty gultom said...

love Die as always.. ^^ ngeri ahh dunia maya ini.. :D semangattt Die..

xoxo
ms.hunz

Mica said...

I'm sad that you feel you had to post a public response to her. I think your great, just keep doing what you're doing :)

If it makes you happy, it does not matter what other people think. No-one makes them read your blog, they could click on another one instead :)

AwayFromTheBlue.blogspot.com.au

Eva Agriana Ali said...

hmmm... some people just don't know how to accept and make some judgement too early without knowing and understanding the other side.

but nice feedback, Mbak Di. you making it in a good perspective objectively and really clearing this thing out. stay original and smile! :)

-evagriana

Diok Moelbert said...

Diana.. From what she wrote, she does a hater.. Abaikan saja orang macam ini.. :-)

Denesia said...

Diana, just say to Cesca "why do you really want to regulate what should I say or not? everyone loves a compliment and it came without my asking, but their appreciation to me"

Hii Cesca, are you looking for Diana's and friends attention?? Poor you

Olen Riyanto said...

cyber bullying is so 1990s

Yutha Syukaina Haryanto said...

just ignore her mba'diana..
She didn't even know how to comment properly..

semangatt yah mba :)

eiphel mercedes said...

we can't please everyone, just be yourself! :D ;D

eiphel mercedes said...

we can't please everyone, so just stay calm and be yourself kak :D

hilwa yusoff said...

Dear Cesca,
First of all, where on earth do you see Kak Diana spreading compliments for the whole world to see??? She was probably politely replying to the positive comments directed to her. People compliments you, you say thanks, unless if your parents didn't tought you well, you say f*** off. And everybody likes compliments who doesn't? I'm sure you love compliments too ;)
Second of all, there was nothing wrong with her statement towards the "love the clothes, not the face" comment. Since when there is such rule saying that YOU HAVE TO LOOK LIKE A HOT CATWALK RUNWAY SUPERMODELS TO LOVE FASHION AND BLOG ABOUT IT TO SHARE YOUR INTEREST WITH THE WHOLE WORLD? Plus, what she said was true, it's not like we could ask God how we wanted to look like when we were born. Whatever you have is God's gift to you. You may be looking like Megan Fox now, but God will take them back when it's time by giving you wrinkles and saggy boops, or whenever He wants, by getting you involve in a tragic road accidents that you lose your nose. But then again, not everyone is born with Angelina Jolie's facial features and Jessica Biel's body. And that's what makes everybody special and unique.
Everybody is beautiful Cesca. So what if she like to make funny or weird faces. At least she's not FAKE and being herself.
Now if you don't like her face and starting to feel a little sick that you are going to throw up anytime, THERE IS A LITTLE "X" RED BOX ON YOUR RIGHT HAND SIDE AT THE TOP OF YOUR SCREEN, SCROLL YOUR MOUSE OVER THERE, AND TRY TO GIVE IT A CLICK. It will do the magic! :D
Cheers

Mitha Komala said...

who is that girl, even. i dont think it's not a hate comment as what she said, it really is. i hope you are tough enough to face that ridiculous comment kak di :) haters gonna hate.

http://mithakomala.blogspot.com/

Anonymous said...

CESCA, YOU ARE FREAK!

Loner Fashionista said...

OMG Kak Diana.. you have a big heart!
just ignore the haters.. they had no life anyway. :)

Loner Fashionista said...

OMG Kak Diana.. you have a big heart!
just ignore the haters.. :)

inezdiva said...

Stay positive kak di :) let haters be haters hehe

http://inezdivaa.blogspot.com

TiaraAle said...

wow :O some people judge a person without knowing anything .
Semangat kak Di, your great in your way :)
for me your one of my fashion icon :)

fya zainal said...

'Face is gifted by God'

Agree!!!

Making jokes of other faces like making jokes of God's creation!!

p/s: saya masi tetap semangat click blog kamu setiap hari :)

Dindinda said...

You have a big heart ka! I just love the way you are, your clothes, and your weird face.. It's just YOU. :)

Semangat ya ka Di!!

Yesaya Ferdinand said...

I THINK HATERS, ARE HATERS. and we cannot denied that we surrounded by them. so I appreciate how kak di responds to the so-called 'not hate mail' (which is so ridic because, IT IS A HATE MAIL. such a fool).

Cheers to that! X

Nidya Astrini said...

I must say, it was a very unwise comment and you, Diana, responded in an extremely well manner (I'm not sure I could've done the same. I'd be shocked and repeatedly tried to defend myself inside my head and there's a good chance that I'd spit every single curse I know). She said ,"it sounds like..." People are free to judge, indeed, but people are also free not to prove themselves to other. So, next time, I think you don't have to response to this kind of thing. You know who you are.

Virana K.S said...

dearest, sweet Cesca,
there's no rule that's saying you have to see the blog. And yet, despite the faces of Diana that u said makes u wanna puke, you gravitate towards this blog. Gurl, if you cant handle the blog, then just dont open it.
she is doing fine without you, and we all can do without your bitter sugar-coated comments.

Bukan Primadona said...

Hi Diana!

Its been awhile since I drop by here.

Keep that positive and optimism in you. Because I need you too.

Whenever I feel down and depressed, I would remember you and stay happy and silly and positive.

People may view you as fashion icon. As for me, I view you as a unique, positive, loveable, honest and kind person.

May Allah bless you and family.

Lotsa love,

Anonymous said...

saya, personally, kagum dengan diana rikasari walaupun kadang her style does not make sense to me. But hey, never see a person from one perspective. Diana rikasari merupakan salah satu role model untuk anak muda saat ini. memiliki visi yang baik, personality yang menyenangkan, dan pengaruhnya yang baik untuk anak-anak muda.
stay positive, diana!

Feetz said...

poinnya adalah, dia cuma gak seneng orang ngejek fisik. siapa sih yg seneng?
toh di dunia ini ga ada orang jelek dan cantik, orang semuanya unik ciptaan Tuhan.
beda paling cuma terawat dan nggak terawat.

Nitya Krisnantari said...

Semangat kak Diana :)
I think she is just trying to get your attention or something..
But anyway,
I like the way you give the feedback to her, kak Diana nggak memperlakukan dia seperti dia memperlakukan kakak :)

Keep blogging, I check your blog regularly ;)

Jane Theola said...

semangat kak'di . she did'nt know anything about you . so keep enjoying your life~ :D

Cik Siti Wan Kuncup said...

Diana,

I couldn't agree more!
I like to read your blog, I love the pictures you took, I like the way you mix and match your outfit and also I like the positive message you've been trying to convey to the readers. ohh, I also like the fact that you are ambitious and you inspired me to be successful woman like you to.
To be truth, I never notice that you made weird face in any of your previous posts because I only focus on the outfit.
So Diana, be strong. We can't make everyone likes us coz we might not like everyone else too, right? :)

love from Malaysia.

cesca said...

Hello Di.. thank you for replying my message in one post. Ok everything is clear now, and I'd like to emphasize that I'm not a hater, nor someone who is envious or jealous OR bullier (since your blog readers think that I am) ...I actually your faithful blog reader and admire your colorful-ness but yes, my only problem is what I've confessed to you.
I might be wrong about what I've said before but I think it's better to just be honest because I just said what I wanted to say. And yep, thanks for answering. Regards, Cesca.

nadiraa natasyaa said...

i'm not 100% agree with her, but she got the point though. and before you write this post, you have already known that your readers will hate her afterwards, right? poor her, i think you shouldnt do this way, kak di
-big fans of you

Dewi Isn said...

hail kak Di!
THIS IS why I always love clicking your blog every time it's updated. Because you are always very POSITIVE. And for the negative letter or whatsoever, well it's just to be read, not to be concerned. :))

Rina said...

Wondering what's wrong with Cesca's mind...whenever I see your tweets about those compliments I see it as your way to thank the person who compliments you...by retweeting it...oh well, you are right, not all people stand on the same page as we do. I really appreciate your way of addressing her comment. Kudos to you Diana :)

Vania Aprilia said...

be strong kak Diana! :D semangaaat!

Love,
Pudding Monster

Mutia Chairunnisa said...

Ka di, inget pesan nya Mahatma Gandhi ka "An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind"
ka diana bagus kok :D

Mutia Chairunnisa said...

ka di, inget quotes nya Mahatma Ganhdi "An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind" ka diana bagus kok, tetep jadi diri sendiri dong ya :D

sweet.escape said...

just be yourself, there are a lot of people who love your photos and your outfit....she said something like that just because she can't be like you....I'm one of your reader, and I enjoyed read your blog and saw your photos...Ganbatte

Anonymous said...

I just think nobody should put hate messages online. yes she is honest yet she is just so rude. i guess people need to back off and mind their own business. verbal abuse is another form of showing the hate towards someone, so hold kak Di, youre strong. x

Sausan Hanifah said...

dunia blogger memang agak menyeramkan ya, harus hati-hati dalam bertindak dan berfikir dahulu sebelum berkomentar. Btw, so agree with Kak Di 'everyone's face gifted by God'. Tetap semangat dalam berblogger ria, style Kak Di unik kok *wink

-Sausan-

rumah said...

you are cool Diana, keep rocking
Cesca just jealous

Ana Hoghliff said...

Hi Diana!
I've been reading your blog for maybe a year or so...
Just wanted to tell you that you are an inspiration to me and many other people who don't have courage to be themselves or accept God in their lives.
Thank you for being such a positive person. You are truly blessed. I know you don't mind people who talk bad things about you, and you're right. And, by the way, I think you are very pretty and fashionable ^^

Mirani Tri Endayanti said...

wow! it proves that you read all of our comments ka diii :) (semoga punyaku juga dibaca :P)

personally i do say honest that kak diana rikasari itu cantik banget! Meskipun belum pernah ketemu langsung. Soal cantik atau nggak untuk diperdebatkan itu soal yang konyol sekali. Everyone has their own thought, idea and sense about "beautiful" and "how people can be called as beautiful"

and i think you are!

eka said...

i don't think it's necessary for you to post her/his comment and reply it as a blog post. it's just like confirming the accusation. my opinion.

Della said...

I think your "weird" face (if I have to put it that way) is what made me interested in your blog. Because it will be boring if you always smile, make some sweet poses, etc.etc. "Weird" faces are cool, u know ;)

outbound di malang said...

halo gan,
tetap semangat tinggi ya untuk jalani hari ini ! ditunggu kunjungannya :D

Dara Nintya Kusumadhani said...

dia (cesca0 cm melakukan apa yg akan kita lakukan kl kita ada diposisinya.. :)

jahatnya blm tentu seperti anggapan kita. baiknya jg belum tentu seperti anggapan kita.. semua kan cm "anggapan".. :)

semangat ya ,mbaaaaaaaaa! aku seneng deh dateng k blog ini..

Anindya said...

Dear Cesca,
just because you're hate your self doesn't mean everyone must too.

Dear Diana,
just keep standing still. hear critics ok.hear haters,not ok. we're only human,we can't please everyone.

Anonymous said...

i'm challenging Ms. CESCA to teach me the 'right' faces that no one in this world will be loathe and puke. Yeah, Cesca, you got better opinion? i'm listening :)

MASTER KEY said...

Semangaaaant kakak diana Jangan Menyerah denganKeadaan Cuekin aja klo yg gituan sih dah biasa tuh sering terjadi di kehidupan nyata

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Makasih ya

eria eka w. said...

Chin up, don't frown! Make it as the trial that u can learn. I still love you, and we're all here still loving you :)

Anisacrament said...

haters gonna hate ka di! semangat!


www.anisacrament.blogspot.com

indri said...

what we think of others, can only be what we understand.

Sesilia Anastasia said...

let karma slaps her on face! be strong kak di ;)

n.i.z.a.r said...

hahahaha baru bacaaaa, gapapa diana. tetep semangat. haters will always hate. banyak yang masih suka blog lo kok :)

Nina said...

she probably the pretty girl who can't accept the famous and successful woman who she thought not as pretty as her. and what's pretty, though? skinny little girl with bright skinned and long shiny hair? we can't even define beauty 'cause it's felt on heart.
i love Diana for spreading positive spirits trough her thoughts; she'snot just publish some fashionable outfits trough her blog. keep your chin up, Di!:)

Anonymous said...

I have been a loyal reader of Diana's blog since last year. I am fond of the way Diana presents herself in very distinct, unique, and full of confidence. It's quite fair for Diana to make one post to response towards Cesca's comment. I do appreciate both Diana and Cesca, for the courage to spit out their thoughts. However, I find it's kind of pity to see most of comments regarding this topic, are actually very near to negative attitudes. Every one seems instantly become haters to Cesca. I don't defend Cesca, or Diana, but please keep a positive attitude :) Please nicely takes this as a moderation or a view about how people differently see and define meanings of 'beauty' and 'self' :)

Tess said...

This is weird-why do you feel the need to make an entire post out of one comment?

Back to regular programing please.

Tess said...

I am sorry one other thing. You said this on your post

"But I will never tolerate any form of verbal harassment done to me or anyone out there..so please try to understand the context first before judging...:)

yet you approved this comment

CESCA, YOU ARE FREAK!

Bunga said...

Nice way to put your response elegantly, Di. Although one can interpret it the other way around like @Eka, of which it's her/his right to express her/his opinion, too.

I do check your blog regularly, too, btw. For other readers, please don't blame / hate Cesca back -- she has also responded here right? -- otherwise it might be actually you who're doing the hate talk. Though you do have the right to say what you think, please restrain putting negative labels to others -- well, it's what cyber-bullying is.

Let's respect each other, even if we have different point of views. Stay calm and keep Indonesia blogosphere beautiful!

Amelia Djamil said...

waiting kak D post for a week and seeing something like this is quite dissapointing, just ignore someone like this kak, so what if they don't like our face, is gifted! just go blogging again kak, we miss your daily post :)

Diana Rikasari said...

Thank you very much for all your comments, friends. I would like to make it very clear once again, that Cesca & the previous hate-commenter has the right to express his/her opinion, and I respect that. However, there is no space for VERBAL HARRASMENT / ABUSE, and that is such a clear concept that some of you are sort of missing out here. This post is not about judging Cesca, or me defending myself.

This post is to share with you all, THAT IT IS VERY RUDE and UNETHICAL for people to make our faces and our physical features as a joke commodity. Is this hard to comprehend? :)

If I visit a blog, I would like to see her photos, where she is, what she was wearing, her thoughts, her daily activities. I would, and we should NEVER say "OMG, you have such an ugly face!". Totally out of context! Even if one would have to disapprove or attack or hate her, please base it on her (perceptively bad) behavior, thoughts, taste. But not her face. YES, we have the right to express our opinions, but NO, we have no right to make fun of people's physical feature in any way. So "let Cesca express her thoughts" in this case is not appropriate, dear friends. I would never let anyone say to my friend that she / he is ugly etc. Just rude.

If any of you are disappointed that I had to post something like this, I find it sad that such a 'bullying act' discussion was not expected in my blog. My life, and my thoughts don't just revolve around fashion and taking pics of my outfit. I am very much concerned about such topics, and I feel relieved that I raised this topic into 1 blog post even though I realize some of you disagree with this. If no one ever brings this up, then who will? We can't keep ignoring these form of abusive acts, we have to fight it.

xoxo,
Diana

arlitaayu said...

I totally agree with you kak Diana...I've been a silent reader of your blog for a long time, and I'm following your twitter too..You're the one who inspired me to write a blog. we can feel free to just post our photos, tell where we are, what we were wearing, our thoughts, our daily activities by writing on a blog. Some people will like you, some people will hate you..Just be yourself and keep calm..okay..! :D

Erlinda "Miss Little Town" said...

I LOVE YOUR REPLY. Freaking cool! TEAM DIANA RIKASARI! ^_*

Fouzna Tri A. said...

LOLOLOLOL haters gonna hate..
love ur respond ! xD

Grace said...

Saya setuju dengan Mica. Public response untuk Cesca rasanya nggak perlu ya. Saya pribadi sangat nggak suka sama stylenya Diana, tapi saya masih suka baca blognya karena menurut saya blognya informatif, dan lebih karena saya suka dengan kepribadian Diana yang saya pikir selama ini sangat menyenangkan dan bisa menerima kritik dengan baik.

Tapi membaca respons untuk Cesca, pikiran saya berubah sedikit. Diana, you should've known better. Kalau kamu sangat ga bisa menerima komentar Cesca karena dia pake kata2 yang bikin sakit hati, dan kamu merasa kamu sangat perlu bikin post tentang masalah ini, mungkin lebih baik lain kali komentar asli dari Cesca ga perlu di include.

Kalo menurut saya ya, dengan kamu bikin post itu, somehow itu cuma membuktikan kata2 Cesca kalau kamu senang dipuji dan ga suka sebaliknya (from my point of view).

Dan sekarang saya baca komen2 di post ini, isinya hampir semua marah2 ke Cesca. Hampir semua hate comments. Did you think about this before? That you'd be creating 'armies' of haters and bullies? Padahal justru di post ini kamu bilang against bullying..

So yeah, that was from my perspective. You are more than welcome to see it from another angle.

Cheers,
Grace

Olivia Patricia said...

Hello Diana..
For sure sometimes your outfit look weird but I always like the way you present your outfits, I can see clearly that you comfortable in it that's why i always love to see you real and see through your post from this blog. You said that you cool with those people who's kill you with their bad comment, i think just let it go. You can't please all person in this world, so just let it be.

People have their bad and good side, so do you.

I believe your fan has their own way to show their care to you, include this Cesca.

You are too good to be distracted by them :)

Diah Deir Zahrani said...

I think your reaction through the haters comment is so normal, I mean who's on earth like when people saying something bad about our physical appearance? this is your blog kak dee, if you don't want to publish bad comments that it's your right.

dunia kecil indi said...

hai kak diana yang cheerful :)
aku setuju dengan pernyataanmu yang bilang kalau setiap wajah (bagaimana pun itu) adalah anugerah dari Tuhan. aku pribadi percaya bahwa gak ada orang jelek di dunia ini. semuanya sama bagusnya, hanya saja bentuk dan warnanya yg berbeda.
tapi aku rasa kamu gak perlu publish komentarnya di satu post, akan lebih bijaksana kalau kamu 'ringkas' saja dan gak perlu sebutkan namanya, lalu kamu kemukakan apa yg kamu rasakan/kamu pikir tentang kata2nya. aku pikir kan yg penting 'paparan pikiran' darimu yg sampai pada pembaca blog'mu, bukan yg lain.

ini cuma pendapatku, lho. aku yakin kak diana juga punya pertimbangan kenapa merasa perlu untuk mempublish komentar itu di dalam 1 post.

oh, btw, aku juga baru mendapat komentar yg hampir mirip dengan yg ditulis cesca di blog'ku. aku bukan orang terkenal, bukan siapa2. ini membuktikan bahwa hal seperti itu bisa menimpa siapa aja. kita gak akan pernah tau kan siapa yg baca blog kita? ;)

xx.

Love.Laugh.Life.Live said...

DR, Coco Chanel once said
" I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT ME.
I DON'T THINK ABOUT YOU AT ALL."
right?
Hahahah...be who you are and say what you feel cause those who mind, dont matter and those who metter, dont mind..Go DR!

Annisa mulia said...

Reading this post and the whole comments just make me once again realized, yeah this is life. About presuming, judging, and misunderstanding.
That's how you learn to survive..

Makin tinggi pohon, makin kenceng anginnya..

Mulan Ranagradis said...

keep the spirit,kak Diana :)

mulanranagradis.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

I didnt see ceska's statement as verbal abuse. Putting it that way by diana made this story a little more interesting. Ceska was just telling her opinion and yes I myself find it ridiculous to see duck faces and 'make faces' which is just look immature on a very nice outfit. Would you really love to read a blog full of herself?
It wasnt judging it was stating. There's a clear difference. Your feedback on a separate post for her was an obvious yet made believe that it was to clear things when in fact it was to make you fans/followers angry to the poor girl.That I dont see as a positive feedback.
She's probably a reader like myself and I am not a hater some things are just meant to say to make people aware of their cutesy-not really pose and make faces.
Again that did really hurt you?? or was it to make a little controversy. your judge is as good as mine.

Woro Indriyani said...

OMG Diana you're so adorable.... I totally agree with your statement "I was just pointing out, that my face, your face, and everyone's face, is gifted by God"....just ignore Cesca's coment... it just like unnecassary thing.

Bravo Diana :)

ndutyke said...

Cesca: "My honest opinion is, yes you're pretty but sometimes you make so weird faces that I loathe it and wanna puke."

wanna PUKE? seriously Cesca?
jujur itu harus. tapi liat sikon juga sih. terlalu-jujur kadang juga tidak-perlu dan tidak-bijak.

Vivid Virginia said...

aaaahh..You make so proud ka you really know how to face that wisely. I really love u.. Well,I'm thinking how can some people hate the very kind person like you?

Anonymous said...

hypocrite.


that's what you and your fans are.
actually in the beginning i don't want to use rude words. but remembering that even a polite opinion sounds "rude" for you.

so...there you go. hypocrite! gila pujian.



against bullies? you yourself now are making billy armies through this post.

mazmazhizhi said...

Well, cyber-world can sometimes be much ruder than the real world.

Everyone is judging Kak Di and Cesca, who's right or wrong. But they just see them from the comments. No one has the right to judge anyone's personality by just reading her/his typed-opinion about something. Neither those who dislike Cesca nor those who says Kak Di is a hypocrite is right.

It is very understandable that Kak Di wrote this kind of response towards Cesca's comments on her. Everybody needs to have the ability to stand for her/himself.
And for Cesca, it is totally okay for you not to like Kak Di. What is not really okay is that you are expressing it 'too honest' without considering any more polite words to use, publicly, that it can draw people's bad impression of you.

Just saying,
Thank you.

Anonymous said...

menurut gue wajar2 aja kak Di ngepost comment itu.. Well, itu haknya dia jg kok. Sama kaya haknya si cesca2 ini. Dan gue sgt appreciate dgn balasan kak Di. Semua org boleh menyampaikan pendapatnya, tp plis pake etika lah. coba aja di depan lo ada yg ngmg 'muka lo weird' or something like that yg ngejelekin fisik yg udah Tuhan kasih, pasti lo agak gimana gt kan? Semua orang emg punya hak buat nyampein pendapat tp kalo gk diatur pake etika ya ga bakal damai dunia. Hal2 kaya weird faces dll itu kan gk ganggu lo jg, kalo gk mau liat, ya gk usah baca blognya. Terus kalo udah ngomong gt, lo mau ngapain? Muka orang jg gk berubah dgn lo ngomong gt, itu urusan pribadi masing2, itu pemberian Tuhan. Dan saya lihat jg kak Di gk selalu ngepost yang good response aja kok, kadang2 komen orang yg not good kaya si cesha2 ini dipost jg. Gue yakin kak Di gk bermaksud bikin orang2 jd benci sm si cesca2 ini, dia cm mau ngeluapin perasaannya aja. Kalau pada kenyataannya, banyak yg gk setuju sm cesca2 ini ya itu udah jd risiko si cesca setelah ngepost rude comment kaya gini. Kalo mau bertindak ya hrs terima segala resikonya. Sama aja kaya Kak Di jg hrs terima resiko berkecimpung di cyber world dgn dapet rude comment kaya gini kan? Baik buruknya suatu tindakan emg dilihat dari sudut mana kita melihatnya, so let's keep looking at the positive side! :) Tetap semangat Kak Di :) Semoga cesca jg bisa belajar lebih dewasa lagi ya :)

Anonymous said...

menurut gue wajar2 aja kak Di ngepost comment itu.. Well, itu haknya dia jg kok. Sama kaya haknya si cesca2 ini. Dan gue sgt appreciate dgn balasan kak Di. Semua org boleh menyampaikan pendapatnya, tp plis pake etika lah. coba aja di depan lo ada yg ngmg 'muka lo weird' or something like that yg ngejelekin fisik yg udah Tuhan kasih, pasti lo agak gimana gt kan? Semua orang emg punya hak buat nyampein pendapat tp kalo gk diatur pake etika ya ga bakal damai dunia. Hal2 kaya weird faces dll itu kan gk ganggu lo jg, kalo gk mau liat, ya gk usah baca blognya. Terus kalo udah ngomong gt, lo mau ngapain? Muka orang jg gk berubah dgn lo ngomong gt, itu urusan pribadi masing2, itu pemberian Tuhan. Dan saya lihat jg kak Di gk selalu ngepost yang good response aja kok, kadang2 komen orang yg not good kaya si cesha2 ini dipost jg. Gue yakin kak Di gk bermaksud bikin orang2 jd benci sm si cesca2 ini, dia cm mau ngeluapin perasaannya aja. Kalau pada kenyataannya, banyak yg gk setuju sm cesca2 ini ya itu udah jd risiko si cesca setelah ngepost rude comment kaya gini. Kalo mau bertindak ya hrs terima segala resikonya. Sama aja kaya Kak Di jg hrs terima resiko berkecimpung di cyber world dgn dapet rude comment kaya gini kan? Baik buruknya suatu tindakan emg dilihat dari sudut mana kita melihatnya, so let's keep looking at the positive side! :) Tetap semangat Kak Di :) Semoga cesca jg bisa belajar lebih dewasa lagi ya :)

Jelita Andini said...

weheheheheeee....
cesca, just accepted, Diana in her 28 years old still look forever young! why? hell yeah because she's blessing the God's gift. And you can compare it with others 28 years old in this world. Katy Perry? Rihanna? << she's still about 23 and looks very old.

in her 28 years old, Kak Di still rockin' young and cute, whether others girls (which 28 wasn't girl enough =_=) in 28 looked 35.

But kak di, emang sih kadang2 gaya kamu itu ajaib. tapi yaaaa cuma kamu aja yang bisa pakai. belum tentu diaplikasikan ke orang lain termasuk saya itu bisa weheheheheee...

overall, as a journalist, i love your creativity in blog writer, so do in fashion, and Kak Di's blog is really inspiring for me making blog ^^

Cesca just another girl who said her point of view. sometimes I do, you do, all of people do the same thing like Cesca to another, right? ^^

However Cesca is our reflection ^^

Anonymous said...

agree with grace, u shouldn't put it on show. The way you flaunt every critics or bad comments you had, it just ... hmm it screams "drama". You are one of the inspirational blogger di, you should know better that when you start blogging you created enemy and fans at the same times.

Anonymous said...

Hi Di :) sbg pembaca rutin blog kamu, aku harus jujur, kadang memang ekspresi kamu di berbagai foto ajaib banget :D

tapi justru itu yang bikin aku suka. kamu nggak takut untuk terlihat aneh, dan kamu terlihat sangat percaya diri, dan sangat bahagia dengan kondisi fisik kamu. harus diakui, bahwa memang tampilan fisik kamu nggak seperti Angelina Jolie atau selebritis lain, tapi kamu terlihat sangat nyaman dengan diri kamu

dan itu membuat kamu cantik :D

jujur aja, kalo aku boleh meminta sesuatu, aku pengen deh minta kepercayaan diri kamu sedikiiiit aja. fisik aku jg nggak sempurna dan sampai hari ini aku masih berjuang mengatasi keminderan aku dlm hal ini. salah satunya dengan regularly baca blog kamu. kamu selalu bs menanggapi berbagai hal - termasuk harsh comments - dengan positif.

keep on writing Di, u spread happiness & self-acceptance to us, your readers, only by writing :)

Anonymous said...

Hi Di :) sbg pembaca rutin blog kamu, aku harus jujur, kadang memang ekspresi kamu di berbagai foto ajaib banget :D

tapi justru itu yang bikin aku suka. kamu nggak takut untuk terlihat aneh, dan kamu terlihat sangat percaya diri, dan sangat bahagia dengan kondisi fisik kamu. harus diakui, bahwa memang tampilan fisik kamu nggak seperti Angelina Jolie atau selebritis lain, tapi kamu terlihat sangat nyaman dengan diri kamu

dan itu membuat kamu cantik :D

jujur aja, kalo aku boleh meminta sesuatu, aku pengen deh minta kepercayaan diri kamu sedikiiiit aja. fisik aku jg nggak sempurna dan sampai hari ini aku masih berjuang mengatasi keminderan aku dlm hal ini. salah satunya dengan regularly baca blog kamu. kamu selalu bs menanggapi berbagai hal - termasuk harsh comments - dengan positif.

keep on writing Di, u spread happiness & self-acceptance to us, your readers, only by writing :)

Anonymous said...

hi diana,
i'm a reader of your blog for years and i believe this is not your first post about cyber bullying on those who made non flattering comments on the blog.

earlier, ur one post was about one person who said "love the clothes, not the face" and called it cyber bullying, which i dont think is true.
when she/he said that he/she doesnt like your face, so what, doesnt mean that he/she doesnt appreciate God's creation or she/he doesnt appreciate your existence? like when an artist created something, some like it some dont. is saying that you dont like one of the artist's creations means you r bullying the artits? i dont think so. you would still think he is still an artist.

so chill....

Cesca has a point, but she could have picked better words than loathe and puke.

Charlene Gondo said...

I'm not gonna say anything about this stuff. I just wanna say that I love your style and how you could mix pattern and stuffs so creatively. I'm dying over your confidence! :( I really wish I could actually wear something unique in front of public.
I think when u got so many lovers, there're haters with almost the same amount waiting for u.
I love your blog!

Summer Flounce

jenal Riani said...

sangat sempurna.

Anonymous said...

ya ampun diana,

harus yah kaya gini di posting di blog?
kalau emang tersinggung sama kata-kata dia, mending email dia jg secara personal.

saya pribadi kasian sama cesca, dia cm menyampaikan opininya. daaannn dipublish di blog no 1 di indonesia iniii, daaaannn dia dibenci.

kayaknya justru anda yg melakukan CB

piss ah. ga benci kok sama kak Di, kenal jg ngga

Rani said...

aaah no matter what people said and thinked, beside Claradevi from Lucedale, you are my fave fashion blogger!!! love you both, and thank you, your style really inspired me, xoxo

Kayz said...

So as the saying goes "Love me or Hate me I'm still gonna shine". Nothing to offend the writer to Dee.
But this lovely Shoe afficionado, Dee herself is extremely patient and good in real life. I trully love this lady and am so blessed to be able to work with her. :)

Esasaeriri said...

"Loathe" and "puke", but "no offense"? Are you kidding? Those are rude offenses enough! -__-

Gita said...

cheer up kak Dee...

some people just didn't realize that everyone's different so we don't have to judge each other for something that we don't relate to... you was born this way and just let it stay as always

cihud aiiiuwardani said...

i really like the way you replied to her non flattering comment that i made a post about it (and you) on my blog (http://pinkdna.blogspot.com/2012/05/well-replied-di.html)

however, i feel a bit jealous of Cesca, at least she got ur feedback, haha..

keep on spreading happiness, love and creativity, you know you rock :)

Anonymous said...

beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everybody has diff opinions and has every right to express them. Having said so, there's an etiquette for each and every acts of our lives, spoken or not. There's always a way to say without hurting a.k.a. "watch ur mouth, dude!"
Aren't we all intelligent beings. Why the ugly forest wildfire. We're all learning to be better each day no? We own it to ourselves if not to anyone

-mandayandalove2T- said...

Hai Diana,
been loooong time didnt check your blog

and to be honest feel sad to read this post, sad coz you have to put this CESCA comment as your post

biasa lah ya, orang aneh2 ya
nowadays makin aneh aja ciber bullying

tetep semangat ya Di
pasti akan terus ada aja orang2 yg iri dengan semangat, passion dan bakat orang, apalagi + smart
duh, guess womens are jealous with you Di:)

regards

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