Thursday, March 5, 2015

How Do You Deal With Haters?

I get this question a lot. From my own friends, during interviews. I wonder why. :D

The thing is, no matter how good you try to be, some people will just find a reason to project their negativity, which I think, are actually grown out of their own insecurities. Therefore, see the bigger picture. All the hate comments you're receiving are actually not personal to you - it's all about the haters themselves and what is missing inside of them.

So kill the haters with kindness. And accept that in life, there will always exist people who are not very nice, but that is probably because they need help. So help them with kindness too. Life's simple. Really.

:)

9 comments:

  1. what a fantastic and positive way to see things. I loved it!

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  2. that is true

    Thanks.
    Raditya Kumal- indonesia
    RADITYAKUMAL

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  3. salah satu yg nanya akuuu *tunjuk tangan* thanks for sharing diana! :))

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  4. well said but sometimes it's just so hard for me to act nice to dem haterzz

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  5. kalo dlm prakteknya bepositif feeling kdng suka susah tuh, yah mungkin memang blm dibiasakan x yah jdi susah, btw nice sharing yah kak' :)
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  6. I couldn't agree more. the thing is, I easily get tired of being nice everytime to haters, to be honest. how do you deal with that?

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  7. that's how to be wise, hihihi
    thanks kak Di..

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  8. it's sounds warm to be lovable for our surrounding, like you so much sista, hihihi.........^_~

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