it’s hard to just pause and admit that life was never about pleasing others. It’s about doing what we want to do, as an individual, and make people happy because we ourselves are. We please others because we’d feel insecure without doing so.
love this quote ka' di^^ and not just one or two people doing that..so many people try to make others happy and lose their own happiness... ijin ngopy quotenya boleh ga k'di?^^
couldn't agree more however YOU do something you like, but trust me it's also inspires many people that you share this with us.. you're really a lucky girl that please both peole and urself... :)
humm....bener banget...kenapa ya,orang2 selalu kepengen/berharap kita akan melakukan yang mereka inginkan,tanpa mereka tau,bahwa kita kepaksa ngelakuin hal itu, karena takut di cap 'alien',karena berbeda dengan orang2 lain...i hate those people!!
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This really speaks to me. Trying to please other, and succeeding, has and still does dominate my life. Everything I do seems to be to please others and seem more successful in other people's eyes. Whether it be my grades or my friends or anything I do its always to seem "cooler" or "smarter" in front of other people.
i definitely agree with you :-) i think sometimes we spend too much time wanting others to be happy. we forget about our own happiness - thanks for this reminded, Di
true. I'm such a pleaser, always try to please everyone and fix everything and feel bad when someone don't like me for silly reason. And it took me long time until I finally realize I cannot please everyone.
There's an anonymous quote I like : "there’s a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it’s not giving up. it’s realizing that you don’t need certain people and their crap"
definitely! but sometime pleasing people too much can be very tiring indeed,in the end no one will please us like how we please others. sometime life is cruel but i always hope for a better day one day that someone will really2 can enlighten.
very true indeed. sometimes when you are busy keeping others happy. you lose yourself.
ReplyDeletereally agree with those words!!
ReplyDeletesometimes people just wanna make others happy and forget about what they really want :)
Sometimes you should take time for yourself without any guilt.
ReplyDeleteLike it, and very true, though i very often don't consider it :)
ReplyDeleteehm im definitely agree <3
ReplyDeletelove this quote ka' di^^
ReplyDeleteand not just one or two people doing that..so many people try to make others happy and lose their own happiness...
ijin ngopy quotenya boleh ga k'di?^^
couldn't agree more
ReplyDeletehowever YOU do something you like, but trust me it's also inspires many people that you share this with us..
you're really a lucky girl that please both peole and urself... :)
humm....bener banget...kenapa ya,orang2 selalu kepengen/berharap kita akan melakukan yang mereka inginkan,tanpa mereka tau,bahwa kita kepaksa ngelakuin hal itu, karena takut di cap 'alien',karena berbeda dengan orang2 lain...i hate those people!!
ReplyDeleteagree :D
ReplyDeletecongrats for winning the XL award bytheway :) You deserved it ! :D
Hey, I just found your blog :D
ReplyDeleteI think you dress amazing! So crazy and colourful (I wish I would dare to were such wonderful combinations myself). Anyway I have just become one of your subscribers on bloglovin. Just so you know :P
Greetings from (a quite cold) Sweden
i couldn't agree more. very true. love it.
ReplyDeletegosh diana...you are so right!!!! in the end, if they're leavin us, we'll survive!!
ReplyDeleteThis really speaks to me. Trying to please other, and succeeding, has and still does dominate my life. Everything I do seems to be to please others and seem more successful in other people's eyes. Whether it be my grades or my friends or anything I do its always to seem "cooler" or "smarter" in front of other people.
ReplyDeletei definitely agree with you :-) i think sometimes we spend too much time wanting others to be happy. we forget about our own happiness - thanks for this reminded, Di
ReplyDeleteSepp..
ReplyDeletejust wanna say, inspiring me...
i second that. nice quote btw
ReplyDeletetrue. I'm such a pleaser, always try to please everyone and fix everything and feel bad when someone don't like me for silly reason. And it took me long time until I finally realize I cannot please everyone.
ReplyDeleteThere's an anonymous quote I like : "there’s a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it’s not giving up. it’s realizing that you don’t need certain people and their crap"
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this stabs right into my heart :)
ReplyDeletethanks for sharing this one, Diana :)
I totally agree with what u've just posted...sometimes pleasing others also are quite hurtful..don't you think?? :) -hani-
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with what you've just posted...sometimes pleasing others also are quite hurtful...don't you think?? :) -hani-
ReplyDeletedefinitely! but sometime pleasing people too much can be very tiring indeed,in the end no one will please us like how we please others. sometime life is cruel but i always hope for a better day one day that someone will really2 can enlighten.
ReplyDeletethanks for sharing guys...:)
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